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New, inexperienced, any/all help is welcome!
I’m a 23 year old guy, never done anything in terms of BDSM but have an interest in trying some things. I guess I have a lot of questions but particularly concerned about whether my personality fits with being a dom. Generally I’m a really caring and cuddly person. With sex I really enjoy the physical intimacy that you get in a position like missionary. It just makes me question whether that means I could still be a suitable dom. I think I’d be most interested in DD/LG because of this and the kind of praise, good girl aspect, I would find that incredibly attractive in a sub. But I’m not a power driven kind of person wanting to be forceful, I think I have more of an affinity to a sub that likes to please (and of course a sub that is into that too).
I’m a pretty slim guy, not into sharing/casual sex. Prefer a monogamous relationship. I’m also concerned about getting with an experienced sub.
Do you think I could still be a good dom? Where do I start with learning and where do I find my forever sub?
I’m based in England FYI, so anything specific to the UK would be helpful :)
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