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I am very very dominant, and this crosses over into my normal and sexual life. Being more than a little submissive doesn't do much for me, and I love having control. However, I have felt the want(?)/need (?) to be able to be in little headspace, and be taken care of. The idea of malicious compliance appeals to me, but I don't see myself actually complying. I guess I'd want to be a little outside of the bedroom and the domme part of me will be intertwined with my daily life in and out. I don't even know if I'm making sense. My partner says that my dominant energy is very apparent, and he doesn't see me subbing at all. I am a switch, so sometimes I get pleasure from being dominated in the bedroom, but 80 percent of the time, and outside of the bedroom, I don't want any semblance of being controlled, or subbing for anyone. Is there anyone who can help me figure out what it is I'm asking?
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