We've been together for a while, both like a variety of things, but recently did much more of findom, because of the lockdown and being a long distance couple.

I must say, I do like it. But there's this lingering thought at the back of my head that he's paying me for sustaining his fantasies. And that findom is just glorified prostitution (need to say I have nothing against sex workers, but in the context of relationship it feels sort of weird).

On the other hand, resource sharing is part of each relationship and my partner has been forgetful with gifts. Now he's splurging half of his salary in one week on me. Maybe that's his way of making up, while also fulfilling his fantasy. Maybe it's also because I've lost my job during pandemic and he's still working.

Maybe I'm overthinking it. If so, any suggestions how to findom in a relationship? I'm a total newbie.