So I have been submissive in my relationships since high school (don’t worry, I was 18) and I am pretty firmly on the submissive side of the spectrum. I have been married to my husband for almost 12 years and I introduced him to power exchange, which has been difficult as it wasn’t really his natural inclination. Over the last 12 years he has become more comfortable with it, but he has realized that he would like to be on the other side occasionally. I am willing to try even though it really goes against what feels natural to me, because I want him to get everything that he needs too.

So my question is this, what can I do to get myself in the headspace to dominate him? I have tried, but I felt like a total fraud. Also, any tips on what to do? I really feel out of my depth