Just to give you guys some background. I've been more of a curious kitty about bdsm the last decade or so. I've done some minor Dom work and I've been subjected to some bondage play as an alt model. But its mostly touch and go.

Given that I come from a Conservative majority island nation I'm curious to see how far I can go being a Dom particularly a Findom. Abit about me, I do enjoy dominating men and I am a lesbian in a healthy mono relationship. I'm motivated by the idea of being a Findom also because my gf finds this very sexy.

Just some questions.

Do I have to fuck my clients? How do I find a paypig or sub? Is fetlife the only bdsm online social network?