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Okay so I am a male who has always loved being a sub, ever since I knew what BDSM was. I played as a sub my entire relationship.
Now that relationship has ended. I have been clicking with a new woman, and she is quite the sub. She loves a strong, dominant man. And that's never really been what's excited me.
However, I have a strong desire to pursue a relationship with her romantically, and to adhere to her kink. I am open to trying out my dom side, while she seems pretty "meh" about submissive men in a kink setting.
So, admittedly, my dom side would initially be to sexually please a woman I am attracted to. But I am at least dom-curious, so I want to know if it is possible, and advisable, to switch your kink to align with somebody else's? Or is it pretty set in stone? As I said, parts of it pique my interest, and I've been getting excited discussing being a dom with her, but I need to look into committing to it more.
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