Hi everyone!

I’m currently having regular amazing sex which has been great, I’m really exploring myself safely and doing all the things I’ve always wanted to do. However, I’m struggling a bit with regularly orgasming. The sex I’m having feels amazing and it’s not the biggest problem as I’m still having a great time, but I just thought if everything else is great it might be time to confront this issue. I can make myself cum quite easily with masturbation, but I know with partners I can be quite in my head. I do like to put on a bit of a “show” for them, not faking anything, it turns me on just as much, but I’m definitely aware of how I’m reacting and what I’m doing for the most part. I think this is the main issue preventing me from really letting go and orgasming.

I’ve thought about trying some sensory deprivation play in the future to experiment with that, because early morning sex (right after waking up) for example makes me cum much easier, probably because my senses and thoughts are somewhat dulled.

Does anyone here have some suggestions on what I could try in a bdsm context (as all the sex I’m having is kinky) to start tackling this? Thank you!