I appreciate this community so much for helping and sharing with me as I struggled through a tough break up, and wanted to share my growth since seeking support here. I was so stuck after losing the person I felt safe to explore specific vulnerable play with and like he was the only person I could play with in that way.

This group gave me hope and now from a more healed and joyful place within myself I’ve met the loveliest group of kinky and kink friendly people who I have shared deep and reflective conversations with as well as bonded in a deep friendship way. It’s been so good to be flirty and have people open to sensuality without the expectation of sex but at the same time being open to having kinky chats and lean into power dynamics in a more wholesome way.

In this experience I’ve dabbled in non ddlg play dynamics that give a similar freedom, stress release and let me be vulnerable and feel cared for. I can now see that the this side of me isn’t ‘only’ activated or accessible with my previous partner but with people who I have deep connections with who also hold safe space for me to drop out of my head and into my body and the moment.

Bless you to everyone who’s supported me and I hope this post gives hope to anyone who’s struggling right now.

💜💜💜