Professionally, I can't be attending any sort of groups or public gatherings. That said, I find it difficult to meet people who share the same kinks. I am a very "behind closed doors" type of person, who lives with a vanilla exterior, but enjoys bdsm in private. I have a professional life, don't wish to be public about kinks. Regular dating profiles are OK, but that's it.

Curious what the best way to find a likeminded individual is? Exploring both play but long-term relationships, but find it difficult with that duality. But I am sure I am far from the only one, so I wanted to reach out to see what else others have done in similar situations?

Thank you very much for your time.