Hey guys, so like many kinksters, I also exist on vanilla dating apps.

I have recently been exploring my interest in FemDom, and I think it is something I want to have compatibility with, in a potential partner.

I am a sub-leaning switch, so I want to appropriately hint at kink in my profile so that someone likeminded will notice.

My best idea so far is using “Vanilla is boring” as one of my prompt responses on Hinge.

However, I can’t tell if that’s too obvious or not obvious enough. Furthermore, I’m conscious that my example looks like a very low effort attempt at a response - so maybe I could a winky face or an IYKYK, to make it more intentional?

This is quite important to me because I think I would definitely want a future partner to at least be open to kink. The last thing I would want is for someone who is completely vanilla to fall in love with me, but then it turns out that we’re not compatible due this area which could have been avoided somewhat.

Let me know what you guys think, and if you have any suggestions please comment them.

Thanks :)