Hi guys! I, a 24M, recently discovered that I am into domination. Yes, I enjoy romantic sex and making love to someone, but I also find it arousing to restrain a woman with handcuffs and engage in doggy. For example, I might restrain her hands and legs on the bed or have her bend over a table with her hands on the other side. Witnessing her complete helplessness and being in control of the situation drives me crazy, to be honest!

So, am I a Dom or something? I don't enjoy humiliating (verbally or physically), beating, or causing pain to my partner during sexual activities. Therefore, I am confused because many Doms have slaves and engage in other activities such as humiliation, etc.

What is it that I am attracted to? I apologize if I am not making sense; these things are new to me.