Novice here, thanks for all the help in my previous post. My gf had expressed a desire to be tied up and blindfolded. I’ve planned out that now, I’m looking for other ways to enhance the experience.

Although we’ve been in a relationship almost five years, I think she’s a bit nervous about asking for things and would rather me take the lead. Probably cliché but she likes 50 shades of gray and that’s what’s given her the blindfold and cuffing idea.

I’m a bit unsure as to what I can just add in and if there’s anything I should ask about before doing. Or is it fine if there’s minimal pain/discomfort involved and rely on safe words?

Some of the things I’m thinking of doing are:

• Nipple suckers, the silicone variety
• Headphones/some form of music or white noise, or even just ear plugs
• Candles or wax melts etc for scent
• Butt plug (used a few times before)- she is always a bit nervous of putting it in, but when it’s in she cums so fast and hard
• Feather duster type devices
• Mouth gag - like the look of bit gag so it’s not too uncomfortable and she can hopefully talk still
• Some other sexual toy for insertion while I’m going down on her

Open to all advice and help, thank you!