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[TW: mentions self-harm]
Sometimes I (28F) get a really intense feeling like I just really want to be hurt. It usually lasts about 30-60mins and happens most when I’m alone and feel frustrated about something.
I’m not sure where the line is between BDSM and self-harm here.
I’m not usually a masochist and both my partners (25F, 22M) are mostly subs so aren’t likely to want to hurt me, and also by the time they’re around I probably don’t want it anymore.
I’m looking for help figuring out whether this is a self-harm thing I should avoid, a sub/masochist thing I could indulge in, or something else and also how to navigate that?
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