So I’m a sub leaning switch and love subbing for my Dom bf. Sometimes my Domme side comes out a bit as a brat lol which is good for us since he’s a tamer too

The problem is my bossy, kind of Domme-ish personality comes out occasionally in just general convos. Like when I tell him to take care of himself and etc. He hasn’t expressed this is an issue to him but I feel sort of bad afterwards sometimes once I realize it. We haven’t directly discussed TPE but he’s teased me about getting me to a point where I’m just subby by default for him. Which sounds rly hot and I want to get there too at some point

Then again, neither of us wants me to be a doormat or echo chamber for him. Also idk if this is even much of an issue since again, we haven’t talked about it yet

I guess I’m trying to figure out how to rephrase things like “go to sleep bitch” into something subbier lol (we use bitch in a joking endearing way btw)? Maybe it’s my mindset there that needs adjusting? Idk but if anyone has experience with this or ideas or anything I’d love to hear them:)