For some context, I’m a sub and I’m into the whole 24/7 dynamics. It’s not just about sex for me. Letting someone else make the decisions for me and simply follow orders makes me feel so free and happy, like I finally don’t have to overthink what I’m doing because I’m just doing what I was told. I’ve tried to look for someone already familiar with the whole bdsm thing, but when I met my husband I fell so hard it didn’t even matter. I am happy in our relationship, and he has a few dominant traits, for example, he’s very strict about me taking my medication (which I forget to take sometimes) and every night he asks me if I’ve taken it, and if I did I get to choose what we watch before bed. Just daily things. I know I should talk to him, and I really want to explain the dynamics to him and ask to try it out, but I don’t even know how to approach the subject. Should I just go to him and say “hey can you write me some rules, rewards and punishments because I enjoy being told what to do?”. I thought about just sending him a bunch of sites and things to read but it doesn’t feel personal enough. I really want him to try it, and if it doesn’t work it’s okay, but it would just make me so happy. How should I talk to him about it?