Howdy! I’m a dom top, and my sub is autistic. We have had issues in the past with her giving me head for her sensory reasons. (I am a trans man and have not had bottom surgery). She loves to service me and I do not like penetration whatsoever so trying to navigate that was a bit of a process. After some time though, we figured out using dental dams and plenty of lube was the way to go for us!

But dental dams are pretty limiting, and the cheapest ones can often be scented with something she is allergic to. I can only really comfortable holding it up when I’m on my back or sitting. It’s great because I usually can still use a hand to grab her hair/manipulate her head and hold her down with my legs and feet, but I really miss the feeling of grinding myself down on her tongue and “face fucking” her. She can hold it up against me which is fine too, but I feel sometimes it feels a bit more awkward and what If I want her to be restrained? So I thought maybe getting a pair of latex underwear would do. I’ve been the same size for several years and have no qualms with dropping some cash on something that would make us both happy and fit our specific needs.

I’m pretty inexperienced with finding and purchasing latex and latex care. I know that there are sites and resources for latex clothing and how to take care of latex, but I have no experience on how it feels on the body and how thin it can go or how it feels. Dental dams are pretty thin, and along with using lube it really feels good. I know that latex material thickness goes up and down to a certain gauge.

Does anyone have any experience with recieving oral while wearing .25 mm latex, using water-based lube on latex clothing, etc? Recommended vendors/brands and vendors/brands to avoid?