I (42m) and my partner (40f) are just starting our D/s adventure after 15 years as a vanilla couple. At the moment, we're mostly aiming to keep the dynamic to intimate times.

While I'm no stranger to sexual content on the internet, she is. This leaves me in a bit of a quandary insofar as I'm not sure where to send her to learn about and enjoy D/s topics: so many BDSM-related spaces (whether here on reddit or on other sites) are full to the brim with what I would consider more extreme practices (heavy on the sadism, pain, etc). I'm not bothered by content like that, but as a "soft dom", I'm definitely not into those aspects personally, and the last thing I want to do is spook her (as I'd bet my house that she isn't and won't be either).

Where should we go for quality content / discussion around "soft" D/s dynamics?