So, as the copied and pasted text will show. I've a lil dilemma. What I'm garnering so far is that I just need to talk. We do. Which isn't and wont be an issue. I.e - we're at the texts of (enter vivid bisual of said act. (Sans toys and any extra curriculum, than nude bodies. But, here's what I'd posted elsewhere.

"Long story short.I (39M) met a lady... (24F) I'm extremely fond of. Apparently she is too of me. (We've already hooked up once, since hardly knowing one another.) And the sex is out this world. However she's a desire/fantasy where she likes it (and I quote) "I like it rough. Real rough being slapped & choked".

I know, I know, I said long story short. Bare wimme. This might be my mid-life crisis.

Now. I'm a man who was raised to not lift a hand towards a woman. But I get the whole sexual fetish stuff. And I wanna and aim to please her. Done a lil Google research. Found what I can. But my questions aren't really answered at all. The choking part I've got that down. That doesn't hassle me, as the slapping part. Do get verbal too? Degrading talk? How should I approach that? Then, just before I get on the bus to another realm? Or another time? And not so much the physical slap, as the I-know-it-cant-be-any-ol-slap part. Does she mean when I got my dick in her mouth? Slap her cheek(s)?

Or does she mean, when I pull my dick out her mouth, do I grab her chin, spit on her face and slap her before telling her to open her mouth? I guess that's my dilemma.

Sorry to bore yall with it.

So, r/bdsmadvice friends.... can we get me pointed in the right direction? Help me to show up and put up? I'll report regardless, as well as all the deets and cheat codes if I find one. Hookup should be in the next week or so. Don't wanna let her down. I can't.

Also, other texts she tells me how much of a little slut she is/wants to be. As well as be my cumdumpster and needs birth control again because that would be a plus for that alone. Aims to please me. Etc etc. My thing is I aim to please HER! And I'd be an absolute fool to not do that. When talking of the perfect woman, inside and out, SHE is THAT woman. And pleasing her is what pleases me the most. Blah blah blah. (I hope all yall felt this desire before. And guessing the page. Yes. You don't get to BDSM UNLESS you know how pleasing the other pleases you. Amiright?

Anywho. Thank you for any and all interest on the post. Wish me luck. And if you can, gimme a couple 'words of advice if you've any to give'.

That's the gist of it. Is there really anything I should do besides just talk to her? Because all I want is to please her. It's new territory and such. (Her. I mean. Im pretty open. She wants this, ive been wondering about sounding. Pegging is a tad extreme. Maybe. Not much scares me though.

Appreciate any and all of yalls time. Wishing yall a happy and kinky life, cuz ill admit, that vanilla shit is wack as hell.

I know, not exactly 'long story short'. But trust me, I could make it much longer...