I’m not sure if perhaps we are just incompatible in this way or if maybe it’s just not his thing in general but it’s kind of frustrating for me. I’ve told him many times that it’s important to me to at least have it be part of the equation sometimes but idk he just doesn’t seem like he has the confidence to do/ say things in the bedroom. He’s also said something to the tune of he hopes I won’t let it get in the way of our relationship if he can’t be more dominant which I felt like kind of dismisses my wants/needs in that department. Is there any advice of like… can men learn to be more confident in that department and learn to bring that energy or is it maybe not something to hope for?