Hi lovely people!

So, my dominant and I are purely online and we started off with not sending pictures at all, since neither of us felt comfortable. I haven’t seen anything from him, ever. I have sent something, not my face, if I’ve felt comfortable and he has never pressured me. Until now.

There was this incident a while ago that he asked me for a spesific picture and I didn’t feel comfortable doing that, so I told him that I can’t send it. He then said that he is disappointed, that he thinks that it would be an important thing for our dynamic that I ”expose” myself to him. Then this happened again, yesterday. I then said to him that I don’t like that he makes me feel guilty about sending pictures, considering that he hasn’t sent any, ever, and I never ask. He then said to me that it’s different because he is my dominant and it is a power structure thing, that it’s about me being so completely his.

While I get it, in some way, I also feel that it’s unfair and I hate that it’s coming in between us. Especially because I know I could build up my courage to send more pictures but I need time, since I’ve had some bad experiences before. And because I have been really sensitive and respectful towards his limits of not sending, I don’t get why I don’t deserve the same.

So maybe I’m asking for some insight, is he being fair and it’s true that we have different rules since I’m his submissive? Or should I be alarmed by his behavior? Other than this I have loved being his sub, I feel like he takes really good care of me.