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Hi. I(25F) have been trying to dig deeper into bdsm since I’ve always been interested and want to start dating; both in general and in the bdsm realm! Lately outside of feeling completely behind, my biggest issue is that I seem to struggle on deciding on what ideal headspace and label I want to identify as. I tend to flop harshly between a brat/little dynamic and a nurturing, bossy mothering type? I’m just unsure how to move forward because of the different sides. Would it be best to just market myself as a switch or whichever side is more prevalent? They both seem to counteract each other. All advice accepted.
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