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Hi everyone,
I made a Fetlife account earlier this year, and managed to attend a couple munches. I then took a break from BDSM, however Iāve got back into it this weekend.
Regarding Fetlife, Iām lunch in the sense that I seem to have some local munches nearby so thatās great.
However, Iām looking for advice on what to post on profile. The thing is, from what I can see, there are lots of explicit and graphic photos people put up in their profiles, which I donāt have anything against, but itās not something I think Iām comfortable doing myself.
Despite this, Iāve been told that have a ācomplete profileā with pictures can be important for vetting before events and meet ups.
With this in mind, is there anything else that could be suitable to post on Fet that isnāt explicit in nature?
Ok, so I always check someone's profile and their activity. No personal photos that aren't genitals, no real effort put into a bio and the only activity is liking nudes are all things I avoid and most women in my community avoid.
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Having a profile that looks like you actually want to be active in the community and aren't just looking to get laid makes a huge difference