I recently started exclusively dating someone who is newish (2 years )to kink, and identifies as a Daddy Dom. We both naturally go towards more primal play in bed, and both like to role play with the innocent/ mentor role. Outside of the bedroom he is extremely attuned, caregiving, protective, doting, and I love it! What l'm noticing is that as we're developing strong feelings and hopes for an LTR all of these things seem a bit confusing. I'm not interested in role play outside of the bedroom, but still very much want to enjoy the deep care he brings, but as my 40yr old woman self. Him tying my shoes, making a fire, sitting on his lap, helping me into the car, cooking for me. My sweet and tender parts of being a strong woman in leadership, have always wanted this strong masculine counterpart. But I do not identify as a little. (Though I enjoy younger/older/innocent/ experienced play during sex) I'm trying to find the words to explain to him that I don't think I fit into the DDLG experiences he's been playing in these last couple years: Littles with coloring books, pigtails and stickers, etc. I feel like I need some help with the vocabulary of all of this to describe it to him.