I (29GF) need a little bit of advice on finding my mojo back into what I love. I identify as a Dom leaning switch, but as of late I've been having problems finding myself. Over the past year, I've been dealing with a bit of stuff, from breaking up with my Domme of three years, to not being able to find my "Little side" after, struggling to find my "alt-self" (Fem Domme side), and coming away from an incident that I have worked through with a friend. With all that said, I'm still having a hard time reaching the two sides that make me....well me, not that I don't enjoy those sides of myself, but it's like I've hit a fog wall that I can't seem to find my way out from. It has lead to me stepping away for a bit, and coming back only to feel like something is most defiantly missing within myself going to events and such. Some memories have been coming back with a friend (who had been outed by another member of my local community), seemingly coming back from hiatus of what I what enjoyed from my fem domme side, but as just doing the motions. So any advice would be greatly appreciated in helping try to find a way to re-connect my "Little side" and "Fem Domme side" with myself.