So long story short, me and my wife have decided to try fetlife together since it was recommended. I'm happy and excited for her because she's been able to meet people online and make friends. As for me which came to no surprise for myself but just utter disappointment. Tried to interact make friends the whole 9 yards but to no avail. To add on it just seems like everyone on there is just there to promote their OF/Fansly. We've even tried to do stuff on there as a couple but the trend seems to be if I'm involved in any way then it's a no go. My wife's experience has been great for her and I'm happy but for me it's just been discouraging and disappointing. Anybody have the same or similar experience? If so, what did you do to get around it?