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Where do I look for people to talk to?
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I turned 18 about 2 months ago, I've tried finding people also interested in BDSM. Fetlife, reddit, close to 20 dating apps. I cant find anyone but people advertising OF, and people trying to blackmail me. Fetlife yes go to munches, bondage 101, but hard part is their almost always during my working hours.

Are their other ways to find people who want to talk bdsm or find a relationship?

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The wiki for this sub is a great place to start. YOU are the only person who can keep YOU safe.

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Do you know how to vet people?

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How long do you vet before you send them things they can blackmail you with?

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Did you do any bdsm education?

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