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I’ve been in a long term relationship for most of my adult hood or fwb relationships. i’m currently 24, I never got sick. now I’ve been interested in having more causal s3x, but i noticed i keep getting sick cold symptoms the day after. I’ve gotten checked for STIs each time and nothing.
1st time - woke up with a sore throat, cleared after 2 days.
had sex again with someone else - 2 days later had pink eye, and a sore throat with a cough and sniffles.
a week later. hooked up with another guy - mild sore throat, stuffy nose, feeling of just feeling sick, sneezing .
fourth time - got tonsillitis lasted about 3 days
5th time got head from a guy no sex, just fingered but ended up with UTI
i’ve just been so turned off at the idea of sleeping with another man, as all i can think about are his gross germs that don’t mix well with mine. It’s starting to really ruin the idea of sex for me as i think their cock is dirty. i’ve been looking at post online and people saying they don’t brush their teeth for days, and don’t shower for weeks and now everytime i want to hook up with a guy i get so grossed out and don’t want him to touch me.
I love bdsm, rough sex, group sex, orgies, gang bangs but the more i get sick the more the whole idea turns me off. what can i do to prevent this?
yes i’ve been trying to figure out how to incorporate showering and brushing our teeth into foreplay lol
Honestly maybe, i’ll def look into it. But I also hate the taste of it and don’t let anyone cum in my mouth.
you’re right. i’m a nurse, so hygiene and sanitation has been a huge part of my life. i clean everything with medical grade disinfectants plus i had a mom was crazy cleaning anxiety and nothing could ever be out of order. think it weakened my immune system.
mmm right right. i didn’t know. thanks for the info ❤️
girl i feel your pain 😭😭😭. i just wanna have sex and feel okay the next day, apparently that too much to ask for 😂
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i also have really bad allergies. can’t be around animals cuz of their fur, can’t eat most fruits, no dust, pollen. i won’t be surprised if this is some allergy related thing