Or does it all click when I'm at the right space? I went to my first munch in years this week and I found it pretty hard to meet people. Idk I'm an awkward girl generally and the format of this one wasn't necessarily best for conversation. At my first munch, I felt out of place. I was shy and 20, and the "real adults" were talking about sex clubs and drinks and traveling out of state.

I did search the subreddit and I know there are many posts with advice for first munches. But I guess I want to know how did it go for y'all over time. Did you just keep showing up and become a familiar face/meet more people with time? Or did you find that a particular group or setting is easier or more fun? I really want to look for events in my area that align with my own hobbies and interests. I think that kind of helped a little this time around or at least it made me more excited to show up.