As most of us live our lives a myriad of thoughts. What to eat, wear work that needs to be done, stuff that needs to be cleaned, kids practices, etc etc. but we find ways to shut it off and cope or deal with life. Some subs can turn it off and off just by walking through a door others once the collar goes on they are an empty brain ready to submit to their partner:). My (30F) sub has the hardest time with this. She is a middle(around16-18yo) and I (34M) is service/daddy dom. The issue that we keep running into is she can’t shut out the outside world which is ok cuz we live together and are 24/7 so most of the time is vanilla tasks. But when it come to bedroom it is on full squirrel ( Disney UP reference) and it has lead to issues in our dynamic. She has found weed gummies have helped. But they are expensive and can’t be taken during the work week so we would like to see if we can get assistance to do it without drug stimuli.

PS I gave as much information as I could think of that I thought was relevant I apologize if it’s all over the place I have adha. And if anything is missing. I will update if more info is needed:)

TLDR my sub can’t turn off her brain and get in the sub head space without drugs.