Hi everyone!

I'm new to this (again) after being a domme and having vanilla sex for the past 2 years. I was a sub before, and thought I was only a sub until I gave femdom a try. Now, I want to come back to being a sub so I can let go of the responsibility and pressure of being a domme.

The problem is, I haven't had any healthy d/s relationships where I was the sub. I've been presented with a wonderful opportunity to be a sub again for a real dom (not just some guy who thinks pulling hair is kinky or thinks being a dom means being abusive) and I wanted to have some feedback on what is "normal" and healthy to keep this dynamic sustainable.

The dom I'm talking to has me smitten like a shy high schooler again and it's been a really long time since I've felt that way. I've been the one to be bold and initiate and guide, exclusively, for the past couple years and I want to make sure I'm not being naive and diving head first into a toxic dynamic/relationship again.