My husband and I are getting kinkier in the bedroom. I like being dominated but I have to tell him/show him (like suggest move his hand) what I want all the time. Which takes some of the fun out of it for me.

I also like it when he calls me a good girl and talks down to me but he is very new to it and says it feels weird but he wants to, but the other night he tried a line along the lines of you like that. You like being my sub. And I honestly almost laughed, it was just not very “dominantly” voiced and idk it sounded awkward.

Now I feel awkward and wondered if there are guides or things to help us find our feet that won’t make us feel too uncomfortable or cringe and laugh at each other because we suck at it. Everything like basics How we can act Scenes Light bondage Impact play Wax play Other fun things we can try Even scripting

And aftercare. He doesn’t understand the aftercare - like we cuddle afterwards but thinking the other things too what I can do for him and vice Versa.

Thanks!