After the death of my long-time subbie partner, I moved to a new city & state in an effort to "turn the page" to write a new chapter of my life.... and I'm finding the path to be utterly bewildering and sad. I'm "older" and I identify as a Dominant - I'm not interested in pursuing vanilla dating channels / finding a connection through that path. I moved to the college town where I live now since it's not far from where I was born & raised... "coming home" as it were. However, in my attempts to start getting acquainted with the local community via munches, I find that I'm utterly alone and seemingly wholly irrelevant. Invariably the folks that I encounter are around the ages of my grown sons... and I've never been a "dirty old man".. the few older folks that I've seen / met are typically already partnered. Just looking for some perspective.. are there any potential avenues / options that I'm overlooking?