I'm into a lot of kinky stuff. It would be easier to list the kinks that don't do something for me than it would be to list all of the ones that arouse me. The thing is despite loving fantasizing about a million different kinks... I can honestly say that the overwhelming majority of them I never want to actually do.

Pain? Sure being tortured helps me get off when I'm masturbating. Actual pain doesn't turn me on.

Being face fucked? When I'm masturbating I get turned on by the guy being so rough that it looks like I went through a war by the time it's over.

Being blindfolded and letting friends pick a man that I give head to and I'll never know which one I sucked because of the blindfold and I'll always have to wonder who it was? Oh my god.

None of those things I want to actually experience. Thinking about the practicality of it all makes me know that my fantasy land kinky mind is far far different than my IRL kinky mind.

Is this unusual or is it fairly common in the BDSM world?