New to the whole kink scene experience physically wise, I try out fetlife on a recommendation for it. Finally found someone to message me back, we were talking and likely would of been the submissive. Talking they said certain words to me (dont know why just dont want to repeat them even in my head) and i kind of like clicked. They had been super understanding and respectful towards my wanting to take it slow and get to know them first. But out of nowhere the app said it deleted their account. Now I kind of feel anxious and more depressed than normal. Is this common? Is it just me being to hopeful? Is their a way to prevent this feeling?