So I used to be in a D/s relationship with a sub, and she said it was completely new to her. I taught her everything about BDSM, we had a great time when we were together and she was a really great sub at the time and I really liked her. We broke it off after she said to me that she's realised doesn't like BDSM and that she wants to end this. I was heartbroken but I understood and we left it at that, not being in contact for some months now.

Now she texts me today out of the blue saying that she actually craves BDSM and that she's gonna start looking for partners. I don't understand why she would even tell me this, it makes me feel like she left me now cos I wasn't a good enough Dom to her. I told her that and she says she never said that and that she thought I should just know that she's gonna be looking for new partners. I suddenly feel like I was inaqequate or not good enough and she texted me just to tell me this. I know I shouldn't be thinking about it as Id moved on but after reciving her text, I started overthinking and just couldnt get the feeling of not being good enough out of my head. Is it wrong to feel this way?