I have compiled a list of questions, tell me what you think. Is there anything I should add? Anything I should remove? - what is your name? - what is your preferred name? - what is your date of birth? - what are your pronouns? - what gender do you identify as? - what is your sexual orientation? - what physical limits or conditions do you have? - what psychological limits or conditions do you have? - do you smoke? if so, what? - do you drink? if so, what? - when was the last time you were tested? - do you have any allergies? - do you take any medications? - do you identify as a sadist? - goals you have for yourself? - what type of experience do you have in BDSM? - how often do you check in with your sub? - what is your highest level of education? what did you major in? - what are some of your hobbies? - do you have a job? - why did you want to become a dominant? - are you monogamous? - what are your thoughts on a TPE relationship? - what is your preferred method of communication when not together? - how often would you like to have contact with one another? - how do you see me fitting into your life? - what are your hard limits? - what areas of your life would you like to improve? - do you have children? do you want to have children? - what are your turn ons? what are your turn offs? - are you looking for a girlfriend or strictly a D/S dynamic? - do you have any medical conditions I need to be aware of? - are you a virgin? - can I have references to your past subs? - do you require a contract? - what can you offer as a dominant? - do you use rules, tasks, punishments, and rewards, etc? - do you believe in and practice safe words? - do you believe in and practice aftercare? - if you were to push a sub to far, how would you handle it? - how would you handle sub drop? - do you desire to one day live together? - do you have a criminal history? - do you like to have a lively social life or something more calm? - what is your favorite kink? - what is the worst mistake you have made as a dominant? - how old were you when you got into the lifestyle? - are there times where you feel you need a break from being a dominant? - what are the primary characteristics of your dominant side? - how do you handle brat behavior? - what would you expect from me in a relationship? - what could I expect from you in a relationship? - will you respect my hard and soft limits? - will we go to parties/munches/dungeons? - is it ok if you or I go out alone? - how much authority will you want to have over me? - will you respect if there are areas in my life I do not want you to have authority over? - what are your political beliefs? - what are some of your favorite things? - what is your love language? - what is your greatest success? - what have other submissives done that you have loved? - what have other submissives done that you were bothered by? - how much time are you willing to devote to your submissive? - have you had experience training a new submissive?

Edit: I am not looking for just a one time play partner. I’m looking for a dom who also wants a relationship. These are not questions I’m gonna sit down and read through the list one by one. These are questions I will want to know over time. These are questions that I want to know from a potential dom partner. Not just a vanilla partner and not just from a one time play mate.