Slightly long one but i want to tell you all about this amazing experience!

The wife (43) and I (m33) are somewhat new to the community, we've done some light bdsm before - tying up, blindfolding etc but nothing like last night.

Started with her giving me a massage with some sensual bdsm porn on in the background to set the mood. Then I asked her to tie me down to the bed and blidnfold me, which she happily obliged.

Once restrained I asked her to go to town on me, tickling, spanking, stroking, kissing, rubbing oil on me etc....it was electric. I was ready to bust within minute, but I wanted to enjoy myself.

She really took control and made me feel safe and secure but in her hands (goals?). One thing she's always struggled with is being vocal and talking whilst doing anything, get in her own head and class up - but it's something we're working on.

So last night I asked her to encourage/praise me whilst having her way with me, not only did she oblige, she went all out! There was "good boy", "cum for me", "you're doing so well!", "good boys get rewards" - just to name a few.

Now, to tell you being vocal gets me going and keeps me going is an understatement, and I think she knew this. Not only did it unlock something for her as well, but we found her session name - "Goddess". I think our neighbours heard one or two moans of "Goddess" from me.

No lesson learned or moral story here, just two people exploring their sexuality and clicking with it, but I'm not too sure where to go from here, I'm a bit concerned I'll get ahead of myself and ruin it.

Anyone had this kind of revelation experience before and can offer advice, guidance, or even want to discuss?