My introduction: Hie I am 22 years old male from India . Identified as Master / Dominant.

I am trying to find a Submissive female as my partner for this I fetlife and also reddit . Dm to many post but didn’t get any reply , and if i get them they are just for time pass , or totally looking for sex. For example : got reply to my Dm it was good in start i want to know them better before we move forward to any dynamic but after that they just start ignoring as they want it to be casual and sexual but in there post they mention to be serious long term and not even communicating they don’t need to take it forward. They want me to control them mostly humiliation and degradation kink without knowing them or there limits. Also messaged many experienced doms for guidance but they surely ask me to be there submissive rather helping me out . There is also not as such community in India for BDSM perspective.

My BDSM thoughts - 1. “ Its a dynamic , lifestyle and relationship. 2. Pillars are communication, safety, vulnerability and trust. 3. BDSM is not only sex or sexual activities , its just revolve around sexual activities.

These are my thoughts about BDSM are they wrong ?

Suggest me what should I do ?