Hi! I'm new to bdsm and I began talking to this dom like mid july and he just ghosted me.

This was the first dom I've spoken to I felt comfortable with and he's been a big help with getting me to get up and doing stuff and not putting it off. This week was busy for him at work so I completely understood the lack of contact (I'd still good morning/night and a couple check in texts still) and I felt fine. Probably unnecessary context in threapy I'm working on not regulating my emotions through my partner and this week was proof to me I was making progress. In the past/ in some ways now I've struggled with constant fear of abandonment and in general having unhealthy attachments to romantic partners. This time I was able to let myself not need him 24/7 and believe him when he said he was busy not assume he just didn't wanna talk to me. I also let myself build a healthier attachments then previously, so yay for therapy.

Friday night he went to bed early then all Saturday no contact I did freak out a little but tried understanding he just had a busy week and probs needed time to recharge. No contact today (Sunday) at all today and I was worried we haven't gone a day without at least hey I'm busy today text so I texted again worried asking if he was ok no response. I just checked and saw he unadded me on snap chat, (my only way of contact bc he deleted the reddit acc I originally messaged him on)

I handle ghosting fine normally but with there being and added level of the dynamic I don't know how to move forward. Obviously I need to move on but this feel different then meeting on dating app and getting unmatched after talking for a week or two. Any advice would be appreciated, thank you ahead of time <3