I’m 20F & single.

I have been in & out (& in) the community…

Recently, I’ve been curious about how I can find a middle ground between the nsfw / into bdsm side of myself & my day-to-day self… any advice?

To be more specific: Is there a way to be a bratty princess without it being nsfw? Like integrating this into my character without it having to be a matter of consent etc? NOT that i want to impose this without consent, but rather that its presence is so digestible that consent or lack thereof would equate…

Clearly I’m still struggling to word it out, which is why I do need guidance hehe (please)

Side question: if you’re single & you aren’t in any dynamic (irl & online) aren’t engaging in any activity of the sort… how do you manage that side of yourself?

Thank you!