Hello fellow travelers

I've been a dom for over 10 years, always in person. Recently I started a serious relationship and my girlfriend is fine with all of it, over time she has even became friends with the 3 girls I maintain this dom/sub relationship. Sometimes she even participates.

All is well.

However, she asked me not to search for other people in person anymore for fears of privacy and std's. The "group" we have now is based on complete trust and transparency and friendship so I understand her concerns about including someone else new.

She said however she would be fine with me doing it online (no location, no face are the only requirements). I started doing it about 6 months ago, a bit lost at first but I think I got the hang of it and it's been very rewarding.

The problem is I live in a small european country and with 2 girls we've reached a point where they really want to meet me in person, as odds are we're actually pretty close in terms of distance. I was very clear from the start this would never become physical, it would be online only, but it is what it is. I had to break it off, which was pretty sad.

So I've decided to expand my search internationally, to avoid this issue.

I have 2 questions for this community:

1) where should I look? In my country I used small ad sites and local forums, I've no idea what's out there.

2) for people on the same boat of online dynamics, is it common for one of the parties to want something more than online, even if it was agreed beforehand that's all it would ever be? Is something online sustainable long term?

Thanks in advance