Hi everyone! Myself, Emma 21MtF and my partner 20 FtM are in a loving relationship and I feel like we can work through anything through healthy communication - except for sex. I am 100% a sub and have never found being a Dom pleasurable, however I do Dom my boyfriend at times because I care about him since it's typically what he likes and identifies as a switch.

Both of us were practically virgins when we met so we've been through a lot and have had fun exploring eachothers interests and thankfully we found both of us were fairly kinky, but I've had issues since day 1 with my own insecurities, lack of sensation when he touches me vs when I touch myself, among other things.

He tries so hard to make me orgasm and in the process I've discovered I love nipple play and am a huge masochist, but I still haven't ever came from him alone. I feel awful and just don't know if this is a normal/abnormal experience that any of you can relate to?

Btw: I take Wellbutrin, but it's not supposed to affect you sexually like most SSRI inhibitors do so I believe it's mostly my overwhelming insecurities but I'm just not sure what's causing it or how to fix it