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So say you’re carrying out a physical punishment. Not a funishment, but your sub does something wrong and you’re physically correcting them. Whatever that may look like for you (spanking, paddling, etc.). During the punishment your sub safewords, do you stop, or do you continue?
The reason I ask is I heard a dom talking about (in a post somewhere) how he didn’t let his sub safeword during a punishment because she earned the punishment for a reason. It’s been on my mind for a few days and I’ve talked about it with my Daddy (who said he’d stop, I’ve just never done it during a punishment) but now I’m curious on what other Dominants would do in that situation. Fwi I am not in favor of it, I feel you should at least stop and check in to see what’s wrong at the very least. If not stop entirely.
A safe word is non-negotiable. We make a promise to respect it as Doms. Whatever the safe word is, the message is universal: "No" or "Stop". That safe word is a pact of trust and to ignore it even for the sake of discipline is incredibly disrespectful and alarming. That being said, I guess everyone's dynamic is a bit different. Their rules and negotiations may be vastly different from ours. The important thing is how the sub feels. If it's something she's agreed to or even takes pleasure in, then, I guess it's no one else's business. Still. The safe word was established for a reason and I've always made it very clear it can and should be used at any point deemed necessary.
Stop. Definitely.
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