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Looking for ideas for ways to be more sexually dominant (I know it’s mostly energy and confidence but hear me out).
Specifically with a submissive girl who feels turned on by the idea of turning me on or pleasuring me. I feel like if I was a cis man or had a dick, this would include having her give me blow jobs and fucking her. And I can still enjoy those things either with my current genitalia or with a strap on. My issue is that while I don’t have too much bottom dysphoria, I don’t feel super dominant when she is giving me oral, even though I’ve had a metoidioplasty and it’s pretty big for a trans guy.
Have any guys found it helpful to try to shift their mentality around receiving oral?
Also, this girl really wants to make me cum and I want that too but for me it does take some penetration and that feels even less dominant and harder to shift my mentality on.
metoidioplasty is the one that extends the clit, right? are you big enough to get one of those dick extenders for it? bc that might be something that gives you that "youre sucking my dick" feeling while also getting stimulation
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