Good thing: I've [38F] gotten to a point where I'm really picky about partners (in a good "won't settle for unsafe or bad vibes" way). Bad thing: I find myself really inpatient and feeling kinda unfulfilled in between partners. I'm the kind of person who can't do sex outside of kink. And a lot of my favorite kinky stuff is slightly more extreme for some people, I guess? I don't of it that way, but a lot of the people in the local scene aren't into stuff like watersports or degradation or even as extensive of impact scenes as I'm into. Anyway, it just means that I'm learning that it takes awhile sometimes to find someone safe, whom I have a connection with, who's kinks and mine are compatible. And I want to feel happy and fulfilled even when I don't have a partner, but kink is such a big part of who I am I just find myself missing it a bunch when I'm not doing it. Any ideas for how I could work to change that/be more contented/etc.?