Hi everyone, I 21 MtF and my boyfriend 20 FtM have been dating for the past 9 months and things have overall been great. It is my first healthy relationship I've ever been in, but I do have an issue with it. He's primarily a sub/switch.

I love him dearly, but when we first met on a dating site he had listed himself as a top (which to be fair he thought he was at the time). Since then, we've both opened each other's eyes to sex and light bdsm, but I find myself hungering for more. I can hardly ever cum from his touch alone and have felt guilty about it since we started being intimate, but I've realized recently I think its because he doesn't have the lust in his eyes that I would hope my partner would have. I want him to take me to our bedroom each night and WANT to fuck me instead of me begging him for days to touch me.

Between me struggling to make friends to begin with and us getting along better than just about anyone I've ever met before, I'm very hesitant to end things (although we do have other minor issues that I am getting tired of dealing with). I don't want to hurt him as he's been hurt so much before and this will come as a complete blindside as just yesterday we were laughing and having fun, but I don't know what to do.

Have any of you been in a similar situation and found that it was worth breaking up with a partner over sex?