Hi everyone! I posted on here a few days ago looking for an answer to a vague and poorly asked question, so with more time and thought involved this time I figured I would give it another try.

Myself, a 21 year old trans woman am in the happiest relationship of my life with my boyfriend a 20 year old trans man. Both of us from day one have stated we were switches as we have both performed a Dominant role in past relationships before (although I never felt any particular attraction to that side of things, I just enjoy making my partner happy) although we prefer being submissive to our partner.

My question to you guys lies within the fact that I don't know if I want to be a Dom. I feel like I only do it for him even though I have somewhat of a sadistic side and just want to be used as his plaything.

I definitely don't want to break up with him as I love him dearly, but was hoping someone here had advice on how they managed being a sub dating a sub while still keeping both people happy.

Thanks for any advice you can give ❤