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Hey all! 31m here with a 28f wife. For context, I’m 6’0, 220lbs and I’ve been exercising for 20 years so I’m fit/muscular/toned. My wife is 5’1 110lbs and has been lifting weights with me for 6 of our 7 years together. So, all that to say, we’re both bisexual and due to medical problems of mine (benign tumor In pituitary gland) I’ve only recently been able to really start exploring my sexuality, and thankfully my wife is exploring hers with me. I’m more dom, but I do have sub tendencies and desires, my wife is more sub but she wants to be able to Dom for me when I get those sub tendencies. She dove deep into r/prostateplay for me and I absolutely love when she does that play for me. I also enjoy wearing a skirt or crop top in those moments sometimes. Not so much to look feminine because I don’t in my body type, but I find it comfortable. So my question is, as a newbie how can I properly balance my dom/sub energy? Is there anything I can do to be a good Dom or a good Sub for when she tries to dom? I want to be a good partner through and through. Our sex life stalled a while due to my tumor, but it’s exploded recently and our sex is 100/10 hands down. We’re both super kink friendly and open minded. I know this is a broad stroke topic to ask, but I’m trying to gather ideas so I can narrow down how to be or what I can do to make our dynamic as good as it can be in and out of bed. I’m happy to elaborate on anything. Thank you for your time!
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