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Was having a discussion with someone about safe words, and I mentioned that if you "don't believe in them" a lot of people consider it a red flag. They got defensive, I tried to explain the needs for communication, they said because you should trust your partner enough to not need them and it's basically topping from the bottom and that most people like no safe word play so it's not a red flag.
So I'm curious, how do you feel about safe words? And is not believing in them a red flag, or should you only play with people you know won't go past limits set prior.
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