Back in December we started talking online. I had been hurt badly before. So my excitement and interest was low. So low that most guys would walk away, saying f this. But he kept trying, knowing I had walls up. After a month I agreed to meet in person, first date we talked for hours. He asked for a second date, I agreed. Kissed him for the first time. He sent me flowers at my work after that second date. On to the 3rd date, on that date we made plans to go to a fetlife event at the end of March together. Few days later he again sends me flowers on vday. He told me I am going to keep pursuing you till you tell me not to. Cause I know what I want. The weekend after vday, we have a whole day together, nice steak house dinner and decided to spend the night together. That was a month, we then decide we want to be in a dynamic. We originally planned on being in an open relationship, but being each other's primary. But March 3rd he asks about being exclusive and we decide to try. Well the next week I express some feelings of insecurities, cause if past stuff. 2 days after that he says we need to slow down, step back a step. That he is overwhelmed. Asked if he wanted to end dynamic and/ or go back to open. He asked do we have to decide immediately. He asked for less texting. So I have backed off, he hasn't reached out on his own. Just when I text him does he say anything. We are supposed to see each other this weekend. He is 62 I am 50 just, both single. He hasn't been on the site we met on in 5 days. We didn't meet on fet. Not sure where to go or what to do. I care about him alot. I to am scared, but not enough to walk away. But I know he can't keep me tagged as his if he isn't going to fulfill his responsibilities as my daddy. Keeping me from finding my happiness.